My life's work is about...
The Cosmic Love Story-
The Eternal Mate
Formerly...
The Tonti Conection
By: A La Lansun

Now I lay me down to sleep,
     I pray the Lord my soul to keep.
  When at dawn I greet the day
     Teach me Lord to walk Thy way.

    God bless Mommie, Daddy, too,
       Not just now, but all life through.
    God bless little creatures small.
  Feed and shelter. one and all.

God bless everyone we love
Here on earth and up above
          Little children, where'ere they be.
          God bless them, and God bless me.

   Help me to be kind and true.
      Gentle, loving --- just like You.
Let me always thankful be
     For all the blessings given me.

        For Linda from Mom:  December 20, 1957

As far back as May 1, 1985 the problem began to focus when Dennis Wholey, host of a Latenight America telecast (WTVS, Detroit, Michigan)  interviewed Ms. Pat Collins, Arts and Entertainment Editor then for CBS Morning News. The subject was violence and sex, and the connection between media programming that featured physical abuse of women in sexual scenes and the steadily increasing violence toward women.
    Examples used at the time included the results of an experiment performed at the University of Wisconsin in which college-age men were exposed to a stready diet of films and videos where women were raped and/or murdered in graphically violent ways. At the conclusion of the prescribed exposure period, a mock rape trial was held, with these same men acting as the jury.
   Without exception, every one of them sided with the rapist and against the victim. In addition, during the question and answer period that folowed, the same young men flatly stated that if they had the opportunity they, too, would rape.
   The men were then put through a debriefing, during which time they did not view any "slasher" films. After the debriefing period, the same mock rape trial was conducted, with exactly the same evidence presented. This time they sided with the victim and against the rapist. In other words, when the stimulus of this type of material was removed, their attitude and their decision were completely reversed.
   Nor is the negative attitude toward women confined to single men in the college age group. Psychiatrists report that an alarming number of their women patients tell them that after their husbands watch films in which there is bondage, whipping, or other forms of destructive behavior aimed at women, the men want their wives to reenact such scenes with them.  At first the wives accede to their huband's requests for the sake of the marriage, but as the scenes become more intense and physically abusive, they are forced to refuse. By the time these women finally seek professional help, the marriages are totally shot and the women have sustained considerable emotional damage.
   By connecting sex and violence the way such material does the message is also conveyed that sex and violence go together, are interchangeable. For example, when sexually explicit films were shown during the research period, the men became sexually aroused only when violence toward women was introduced.
   What did this research tell us way back then?  It should have rung a loud alarm, and based on today's statistics It must sound an even louder alarm today. Have women been conditioned to accept, even expect, such treatment by centuries of nonrestance and devaluation of our worth?  That we still feel obliged to tolerate a relationship with someone who uses us or violates us, emotionally and/or physically? Are we still so ignorant of our own nature and self-worth that we can be shoved in the wrong direction?
   So much is spouted today, even out of the mouths of twelve- and thirteen-year olds, about great sex.  But who is talkkng about great love?  These two facets of human experience seem to have been surgically separated.  It is hard to listen to the wistfulness in the voices of many young women who use the past tense when they speak of a belief in a great love relationship. 
   Well, maybe our minds can buy this, but our hearts cannot.  It's time to remember a basic law --people create and sustain what they give their attention to; what they support, actively or passively. So when the physical side of human nature is constantly reinforced and projected, we should not be surprised if a relationship never develops empathy or intimacy in other areas.
   The frightening thing is that research statistics since the 1980s reinforce the problem of increasing violence toward women.  When colleges have to actively deal with date rape and high-school couples include physical abuse as a "normal" part of their relationships, it is time to draw the line. We may have already lost one generation.
    What guidelines does a fourteen year old have to steer though such emotional waters? It might help her to remember our biological difference. For the male of any species sexual intercourse involves projection and release.  For the female it involves opening and receiving. 
   That difference can tell her a lot.

Copyright (c) 2010 Anne Forrest Elmore
                                            

Sacred Sexuality

&

The Power of True Love

What is referred to as sexual energy is really not sexual at all – It is the creative force and potential that underlies all existence.

Our souls were birthed out of the cosmic womb or void where union, cohesion and oneness was all that was experienced – duality had not yet been birthed.  In this state there was no “Self” and “Other”.  The Source of all that is wished to create experience and reflect back to itself existence, thus the original division of energies occurred creating masculine and feminine polarities or yin and yang, yet each polarity contained within it a portion of the opposite energy.

It is difficult for most of us to conceive of the words sacred and sexual in the same context. The truth about Creation, sexuality and awakening has been distorted and cloaked in secrecy for thousands of years. There is a full spectrum of expression available to us, from a lower chakra experience akin to friction to ecstasy, soul fusion, transcendence and unifying your physical and multidimensional aspects.

The main ingredients precluding most of us from having this type of experience are a blocked energy field, a closed heart, the inherited distorted patterns of our ancestors, a disconnect from our original innocence, and connecting with others whose energies reflect the energy of our personality and not our soul's energy. 

What we are really looking for in another is our self – Self meaning our essential nature – the essence or specific vibratory signature of our soul – when we do come into contact with a matching soul frequency what is reflected back to us in our joining is the love we are made of. In the beginning our souls were birthed in innocence and purity – and we experienced all facets of life with wide-eyed wonder, magic, joy and appreciation.

The urge to merge or reunite with that which created us, is woven into the very fabric of our being.  The original impulse for union was borne out of desire of the lover and beloved to be at One with one another after their original split.   The magnetic pull or impulse for union as an expression of your adoration and deep abiding love when truly with a soul essence partner your joining is on every level; heart, body, mind and soul – your fusion recreates creation itself and blends the male and female energy into a single consciousness. There is no thought involved – it is the natural and spontaneous progression for your soul during it evolutionary journey.

The way to open to this type of experience depends on your capacity to cultivate Joy, wonder and appreciation for all life.  When you truly view your self and your life as sacred, you can reach profound states of awareness by gazing into your lover’s eyes -  and have eternity looking back at you. True intimacy requires us to Love, honor, cherish, trust, respect, and the ability to truly surrender to one another.  There is no drama, no manipulating or reenacting childhood wounds.  You love for the sake of loving because you are so full of love; you just have to let it out.

In some ways an attempt to encapsulate an experience of this nature diminishes it.  There is no greater power in this world than the power generated by true love and soul union. There is no greater gift than to be with one who truly knows and reflects your essence back to you. For in its highest form, desire for union with another is really  the desire to experience their essence. Inherent within this union is the ability to collapse duality, unify the masculine and feminine energies within and restore balance to the planet.

These are not esoteric concepts to me.  I have had the gift of experiencing this type of union with multiple soul partners from my original soul family.  This path is not for the faint of heart as along with profound states of union may come all of the unconscious patterns preventing one from experiencing union as the natural state of being.  It is worth giving all you have for once you have experienced this type of union; traditional types of partnering based on personality may repel you.  Ultimately, all your searching will lead you back to yourself.  The self that knows Joy is our natural state and Love is our true nature.

Xo

Ansara

Ansaraangelheart.com

Copyright (c) 2010  Solarium  Analytika

This sums up what the Tonti-Alonti Connection is all about.  My heartfelt thanks to 
Ansara for sharing this with us.  A La Lansun

WHO AM I?

I have been virgin, wife and lover.

I have been a single parent with all the responsibilities this entails; self-supporting, menopausal, beloved and forgotten.

I have known love that transcends words.

I have felt the beckoning finger of self-destruction and the feeling of despair and inadequacy that is his Messenger.

I have laughed until I cried and cried until I laughed at my own foibles and self-delusions.

I have felt the earth groaning under the weight of humanity's spilled tears and blood; felt her agony induced by nuclear rending of her inner self.

I have wept over the pitiful carcass of someone's loved cat or dog rotting by the highway, and cursed the speed and indifference that put it there

I have known gut-knotting panic when my livelihood and that of my child were at stake.  When an antiquated and unjust economic juggernaut threatened to grind the soul out of me.

I have nurtured the young; understood the sprouting independent rebellion of the teens, and both loved and resented the old.

I have kicked off my shoes and dived in the pool of sexual freedom made so enticing today -- then alone in the night regained my center and realized the emptiness of the promise.

I have longed to fly and been forced to crawl.  Ached to express my inner being and been locked into roles by the needs of others.

I have been emotionaly numb from too much pressure -- and longed for such numbness from too much pain.

I have watched the flame in me flicker low from want of another's caring; felt it blaze into noonday brilliance in a tender moment of true meeting of hearts.

I have learned logic and reason and lost my heart's wisdom.  I have sought answers from experts and found empty cliche's.

I have burned bras to defy my biological prison.  Yet felt the deep contentment that only I can know when tiny hands move on my breast and an eager little mouth seeks life-giving nourishment from me.

I have resented man's illusion of superiority that creates acts of domination; yet felt ageless when I filled his deeper need of me.

I have packed away so many dreams and private hopes; thrown away others.  I have let some of my jewels slip through my fingers because I forgot who and what I Am.  And then painfully walked the inner path back to my center and met my own godhood.

I AM WOMAN!

THE TONTI CONNECTION - Part 1
Your Eternal Mate

from
Solarium Analytika
A La Lansun

Solar Cross* 

Excerpt from March 31, 1960 Reception

THE HARE — GREEK SYMBOL OF THE LOGOS
(Twin Flames Reunited in Divine Service)

Some of the highly evolved souls who have returned to your world to assist in its raising to a higher state of consciousness are androgynous.  That is they have evolved to such a state that the male-female aspects of the original soul have been returned to the union which began. 

It is this very high state of development that enables them to serve in their present capacity — one aspect of the soul, either male or female, in flesh while the remaining aspect serves its flesh counterpart from the realm of spirit. This explains in part the great loneliness and longing that both aspects feel when they are so severed.

For the sake of the dimension in which the flesh aspect has incarnated, both will again be present — but one as male the other as female, for so it must be in your world. And a sense of completeness will once again be experienced when together, for in truth they are literally One.

As in all Creation, the attraction of positive and negative polarities exists [in the electrical sense]. Therefore, the earth aspect of this soul will innately sense this incompleteness until such time as its true opposite pole can be reunited with it.

This is being accomplished in many ways during this phase of God’s plan. In some instances through the great love and longing that exists between the soul aspects, one aspect in flesh (usually female) is instrumental — indeed absolutely necessary — to allow the male spirit and awareness to incarnate in flesh [see Homecoming: Reincarnate versus Incarnate], the Host having been chosen before its physical birth. This does not mean that the Host is a nonentity. Indeed the Host is but a lower vibrational aspect of its own Essence that shall one day manifest within.

Although both could, under certain circumstances and for a limited time only, be present in one human form, this is extremely foreign to your world and would create great distress and despair in the one so embodied. We must work within the laws and conditions of the world in which we deal. Therefore in your world the Soul that is literally One must be divided into two to appear as male and female.

When each has balanced its own outer and inner poles, then your higher natures can manifest through the physical instruments your personas supply. Thus did Jesus the man become the male expression of the Christ nature of the soul while Mary Magdalene embodied the Christ nature’s feminine principle. And the power of the whole or Holy Spirit was expressed in form to one day be recognized.

For pure spirit to occupy flesh is a difficult thing indeed, and unless such is accomplished through gradual awakening and preparation of the Host, it is too great a shock to the soul aspect so entering. That is why the amount of time required. Since inception the human aspect has been enabling its own polarity existing in spirit to draw nearer to the realm of flesh and lessen the shock somewhat.

The physical expression your mate assumes is already prearranged, but it will not matter because when the process is completed such happiness and oneness come forth as to be overwhelming. And the higher the original soul in its development, the greater the love between the manifesting aspects and the deeper the feeling of completeness. This is understandable because the more completely balanced each one is — the more complete the two are when together. As your Emerson states it: "There must be very two before there can be very one."

This will also explain why this great love is not always present between the two who are in truth one. The higher self is not always present/manifesting. This coming and going of Self shall be experienced until such time as the complete awakening is accomplished — and this shall not be until absolutely necessary for you could exist in your world for only a short time as a fully enlightened One. The high, high vibration you would radiate and the intense sensitivity would be difficult indeed for yourselves and others. Therefore, treat with the earth aspects of one another in all gentleness, for the Christ slumbers within, awaiting only the clarion call to arise — to come forth from its tomb of flesh.

This is the marriage made in heaven — holy [whole] matrimony. The reunion of the original soul. Even still slumbering in flesh, as you must of necessity be, you will sometimes glimpse the power and beauty of such a union, and this will more than compensate for the in-between periods when only the human selves are present. For it is love incarnate.

So you see, as foretold, your higher selves shall indeed "walk upon the earth." Logos, the Incarnate Word — cause hidden, effect clearly visible in your world as Two who are One that Are!

___________________
*Solar Cross:  A sun symbol.  However, a much more ancient symbol of the divine polarity balance in all creation.  Misused in our world by the white supremacy group known as the Ku Klux Klan and the stylized form that became the Nazi swastika, symbol of their Ayran master race concept.

Copyright © 2009 A Lá Lansün

mailto:afelmore@cox.net

RARE SPECIMENS

The spread of fear is an insidious disease that slowly paralyzes and corrupts, not visibly as with a physical disease, but within. The article I just finished reading is a perfect example of the fear propaganda we are exposed to in the constant stream of advice on the "mating game," aimed primarily at women in the magazines they read.

The article stated that eligible men are becoming a scarce species, on a par with the whooping crane and buffalo. Written by a marriage counselor (who should know better) it goes on to say that of course such a condition is unfair but, fair or not, women must accept these facts and alter their behavior accordingly.

It then proceeds to give lucid advice to the female of the species on the best tracking methods to employ in search of this rare specimen.  Evidently all she needs to outfit her safari is a complete departure from her true nature and the scruples of a stalking tiger. It does not elucidate what she does with the big game once bagged. Nor does it mention that every specimen in the bush may not be worth the effort. And, chicken-hearted, such advice stops once the rice is swept up.

Statistics like these play a big part in the battle of the sexes.  Such quotations accomplish a devious male purpose.  They instill fear in the female, produce a wary attitude in the male, and inflate male ego. He could even be in the "throwback" category, but here -- in black and white -- is proof positive of how rare and valuable he is.

This cat and mouse game only produces mutual disappointment.

Many feel concern, especially parents, at the tremendous upheaval taking place in the morals and relalationships of our civilization.  But I cannot believe the answer lies in more fear.  For that which dims the spirit as it sates the senses is not love, no matter what social sanction it may bear.  Holy  matrimony implies "whole."  Signifying a union of two souls as well as two bodies.  A linking together of two lives, two separate destinies for mutual benefit and mutual understanding.

I am weary of experts, regardless of their credentials, who offer solutions to problems that are essentially spiritual.  (I did not say religious.)  The men and women living today are the experts; those caught up in a search for something lasting and real amidst the confusing mores of today's world.  They will be the experts --- those who do the living.  So as a nation "of the people," we will write our own history. 

it takes intelligence of a high order to refuse to be swept up in any kind of propaganda. An abilty to see hidden motives and foresee results.

We are told there is divine love, and then there is human love.  Who said they are supposed to be separate? The example given by the man Jesus above all was honest, containing no element of force or flattery.  If we had the courage to apply this basic recipe to human relationships, it could sweep away the heartaches so often associated with human love. And because of the sexual freedom in today's world, men are no longer stampeded into a union because of physical impetus or need. Therefore, if obligations are accepted in today's freer society, they should be by mutual consent and for mutual benefit.

An easy-to-remember picture is a three-legged stool. Unless mind, body, and  spirit are involved, you have a lop-sided stool, incapable of supporting much weight. So maybe it's time to learn the difference between a marriage license and a driver's license.  Both have responsibility attached, but marriage implies dual control of the vehicle toward a goal.

Let's forget the statistics and concentrate on ourselves.  Like attracts like, you know.  Let's admit the real quarry we seek is a warm. enduring, honest companionship that adds stature to both parties.

In simple words, a deep friendship --- with wings!

*   *   *    
Copyright (c) 2009 Anne Forrest Elmore
newagepublications@gmail.com
www.newagepublications.com

Through all the stages, short and long, a daughter is so like a song.
A melody, now sharp, now flat, with counterpoint of this and that.

Major chords are mountain tops, all filled with laughs and lemon drops.
But woven in are minor notes. The tears, the sighs, the lumpy throats.

Not long ago I held you close and crooned soft lullabys.
And in a mother's heart that echo never dies.

Yet in a single day it seems my busy child was filled with dreams.
With slender form and gentle brow a woman stands before me now.

Your courage and your faith are strong.  And though the road
is sometimes long and filled with doubts and restless fears,
Your love, your light will brightly shine throughout your time of tears.

God bless you, daughter mine, and wrap you round in angel shine.
May the gift of love abide with you.  May the light of wisdom see you through.

                        Much Love,
                           Mom

Copyright (c) 2007 Solarium Analytika
newagepublications@gmail.com
www.newagepublications.com